Judi writes:

Well, i read the story entitled “shaken, not stirred” and I rather liked it (now did that ALL really happen …)

ah, i sense you’re skeptical. judi, is it really so hard to believe that my dick is “long”? shit, i knew i went too far when i threw that line into the mix.

well, i assure you, the rest of the story is all true. except for the parts i made up.

i know there is a lot of interest in women for sale, maybe latinas are even more enticing (are they?)

thinner and darker maybe. i think all women are enticing in their own way. sex workers seem more enticing because they are selling a dream. the dream that fat, old gringos like me could ever appeal to a young hot latina.

what CAN YOU DO WITH A WHORE THAT YOU CAN’T DO WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE?

um, whores are much more flexible judi.

with a sex worker you won’t be judged. you won’t have to work.

example: a man loves his wife, but he wants to be dominated. chances are his wife/girlfriend will not only be turned off, she’ll also lose respect for him. after all, that’s her man wearing panties and licking her boots. however, a pro has heard it all. many pros end up catering to a man’s kinkier needs.

Don’t you have an STD from all this…

hang on, let me check. no, i don’t think i have an STD. but then insanity is a sign of syphilis - no?

anyway, are there that many men who can’t find someone they like/love to “make love to” and who have to resort to prostitutes

i don’t know about “can’t”. love can a hassle judi. hard work and compromise don’t often lead to hot sex. sex with a pro can be easy, and quite pleasurable. perfect for the hard working man who just wants relief.

that said, i don’t really enjoy clinical encounters. women have always been my friends. i enjoy their company. i much prefer the company of women to men. for me sex gets better when there’s attachment, and understanding.

of course understanding can be elusive, and sometimes you just need to get laid.

I do not fault these women, we are have to earn a living, –I fault the lives they lived or the lack of self esteem - (at least in the states come from upper class homes) -or is there some “rush” or testosterone thinking that it is wilder sex, etc.

if i were a woman, and i could choose between making $100 to screw a gringo, or $200 a month to scrub toilets, it would not be a hard choice. not at all. i just wouldn’t screw a fat gringo ’cause that’s just gross.

i’ve met many women here, and in the states, who become sex workers because they like men, sex, and easy money. and more than that, they like the power they have over their clients.

We both know you can have the best sex with those you love.

absolutely. i’m a serial monogamist. but then lots of people who love each other dearly have really awful sex. and total strangers can have the most amazing sex. some folks think sex without love is wrong, or dirty, or inferior. i don’t believe that. it’s just different, sometimes better, sometimes worse.

Men DO baffle me, really.

judi, what is life without a little mystery? there’s a reason why i included that brilliant Hutton quote. women don’t get men because they aren’t chained to the village idiot. testosterone is a demanding mistress.

Now shouldn’t all this be in the comments dept? I am sure there would be some retort.

of course. retorts are the life-blood of panama after hours. thanks for yours.

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